My name is Fame Agidife from Famepidia and an author @
D PRINCE N D TREASURE
( A Pep Chat Social Community diary aimed at uniting people through love heroes and heroines ). And
You as our personality for the day we will like to know you by your name and what you do for a living and the City you currently live in.
[4/28, 00:17] Mrs Akpebe: I am Mrs Ajiri Akpebe and a fashion designer.
Your State of origin ?
[4/29, 21:02] Mrs Akpebe: Delta State
[4/28, 00:18] Mrs Akpebe: We live in Warri, Nigeria.
[4/29, 21:00] dprincendtreasure: Your state of origin ?
[4/29, 21:02] Mrs Akpebe: Delta State
[4/29, 21:00] dprincendtreasure: Your home town ?
[4/29, 21:02] Mrs Akpebe: Oleh, Isoko-Souh L.G.A
How did you meet your love hero, I mean your husband ?
[4/28, 00:21] Mrs Akpebe: I met my husband at a very young age, though I had never really knew him well as at that time. His cousin was living opposite our compound and that was how he saw me eating outside our house and he started teasing and making advances.
[4/28, 07:02] dprincendtreasure: What about the story that when he sighted you at the first time he and his people were on their way for an engagement to another woman and he immediately abandoned the engagement and he ran after you ?
[4/29, 10:30] Mrs Akpebe: You know that part na, you complete it.
[4/29, 10:33] dprincendtreasure: Write it on your own words it is your story.
[4/29, 21:35] Mrs Akpebe: Before my husband got married to me he had already engaged to a girl that was chosen for him by his cousin sister. And as at that point in time all arrangement had been made to the girl’s family and a date had been fixed for the introduction already.
[4/29, 21:38] Mrs Akpebe: And it was that same day that they were about going for the introduction for the girl and it was even because of that he came from Warri on the visit when he saw me eating on that day and because of that na he refused to follow his people for the introduction insisting that even if he go he is just going there for going sake that he has seen his wife. And according to him he was accusing his cousin who chose the girl for him that why should she choose that kind of a girl for him while this kind of fine girl is right here with her.
[4/29, 21:42] Mrs Akpebe: “That this beautiful girl is here ever since and you went somewhere only God knows to choose one girl for me”. But according him his cousin told him that the girl you are talking about her family is very strict and they will not allow him to marry her besides she is still in school. And the girl you are even claiming is your wife that you have seen can you recognize her ? That the girl you are talking about is an identical twins. And as he always related, he boasted that let them call them out he will pick the one he saw as his wife out of the two. And you know how those things are done na, they used style to call me and sister twin out, and he really picked me out. My twin sister’s name is Oghale and I am Ajiri and they asked him is this the one you saw ? And he answered yes. And at that point I just knew what was going on and I got shied and I took off. And that was it and the rest now are history.
What was that particular physical attribute that you saw in him that struck your heartbeat for him ?
[4/28, 00:23] Mrs Akpebe: There was no real physical attribute at all on my side except the fact that I was attracted to him as he always said and that was it.
What was your spiritual conviction that makes you accept him over lots of others that sought your hands for marriage ?
[4/28, 00:25] Mrs Akpebe: Being a young lady as at that time I was not really spiritually strong as such but at the same time I was not too sure of marrying him. My decision was up and down and coupled with pressures from my parents and Christian members at that time I just have to make decision.
Tell us how emotionally excited you were that day when you finally got married to him.
[4/28, 00:26] Mrs Akpebe: I was excited that I have finally gotten married as one of the biggest achievement of many young women out there to become independent from your parents and to begin to control own home but still lonely living my family behind.
Are you both still that emotionally exciting to each other ?
[4/28, 00:28] Mrs Akpebe: Though there was no love as at then but later I gradually started growing in love up on till now and it keeps growing on in each passing moment of the day. And sincerely I am very much in love with him right now as we bond older together in the marriage relationship. I have come to know him as a person and he is full of fun and he makes me happy and that is the most essential thing in marriage – happiness is key to marital success.
Does that as well answer the question of whether you are still in love with him ?
[4/28, 00:29] Mrs Akpebe: Yes still very much in love with him.
[4/28, 10:20] dprincendtreasure: What makes you happy and on reverse what makes you suddenly sad ?
[4/29, 08:40] Mrs Akpebe: When I have money to spend on my loved ones; my family and my friends. And what makes me sad is I don’t want people to say bad things about me or when am being unappreciated of my kind deeds or say it is a must that I must help you.
What is your spouse favorite meal and yours ?
[4/28, 00:31] Mrs Akpebe: He likes banga soup with fresh fish while I love rice and fried plantain and fruits and always on my cup of tea in the morning and in the evening when eating as my cup of water.
What is your advice for the upcoming people into the marital union most especially on true love against materialistic love ?
[4/28, 00:34] Mrs Akpebe: My advice is that they should not look down on any person because you can never tell when that person might blow. I mean as at getting money and that is why putting money
and material things ahead of other values are not really feasible when it comes to marriage decisions because just as it applies to all cases of life it is full of ups and down so also the life that exist in marriage. And when it comes to basing your decisions on love, sometimes it does not really work that way, just as in my own case but as time gone by it develops and it blossoms. Love comes when you don’t expect it and it comes as a force of its on and it blows you off your feet when you least expect it and when it does you cannot have control over it. Anyone who put material things first ahead of other life’s values will definitely fail at the long run because life on its own is a mystery and it is certainly uncertain. When marriage relationship knocks at your door, first, put those values you feel might not be of great hindrance to your life in the future into considerations because at the long run it is only your values that make the difference on who you truly are from the rest of the world and that you cannot give away to be taken away from your Those values are the little life you have and that is where your happiness truly depends and that you alone can offer yourself.
What is your love philosophy or your understanding of love ?
[4/28, 00:38] Mrs Akpebe: My love philosophy is that when two come together as one heart the have to feel each other and they must always work in unity; though the world’s love today is all about acquiring material things and the latest trends and when you are not there then you are out of love and that is why it is very difficult to find true love today.
How do you think love can be used as a force to unite the world ?
[4/28, 00:42] Mrs Akpebe: I think with love the world can be a one united place where there will be no hatred and racial discrimination nor tribalism and each will be the other’s care givers in oneness to the best of our human ability and the world will be a better place.
[4/28, 14:14] dprincendtreasure: What is your leadership style like both at your work place and at home ?
[4/29, 08:43] Mrs Akpebe: I am very simple and understanding. I do my things at the right time, I read the minds of people and that helps me to relate with them base on their current situations maybe they are tiered or not mentally and physically fit to be assigned for a particular duty and I also strive very hard to make people around me happy.
[4/29, 11:54] dprincendtreasure: On your own opinion do you think help can be repaid ?
[4/29, 16:25] Mrs Akpebe: For where ? It is not possible.
[4/28, 19:02] dprincendtreasure: How old have you been in marriage and what have been your key principles to the success of your marriage so far ?
[4/29, 08:47] Mrs Akpebe: By Jehovah’s grace I am going 28yrs in marriage now.
Understanding your mate is very important, do not listen to side talks, both parties must develop the ability to tolerate one another and above all trust not on your own understanding alone but that of God; lean on Him and He will never forsake you in the days of trials.
[4/28, 22:03] dprincendtreasure: You and I have just written an inspiring love story on the book D PRINCE N D TREASURE. Now tell the reading audience your personal remarks about this love book.
[4/29, 08:48] Mrs Akpebe: It can help someone in marriage.
[4/28, 22:04] dprincendtreasure: Lastly before I will let you go tell your husband how much you truly love him.
[4/29, 08:49] Mrs Akpebe: He knows how much I love him and appreciate him.
Thank you very much and God bless.
[4/29, 21:43] Mrs Akpebe: You are welcome and I am really honored to be on the chat with you. And I must also thank you very much for the good work you are doing keep the good work going.
[4/30, 06:00] dprincendtreasure: You are welcome.
[4/30, 06:00] dprincendtreasure: Now select out of these two headlines below the one you would like us to use to publish this story to the reading audience.
MY HUSBAND ABANDONED HIS MARRIAGE INTRODUCTION TO ANOTHER WOMAN AND RAN AFTER ME AT FIRST SIGHT – Ajiri Akpebe @ D PRINCE N D TREASURE (Personality Pep Chat.)
THE WORLD WILL BE A BETTER PLACE IF WE CAN BECOME EACH OTHERS CARE GIVERS IN ONENESS – Ajiri Akpebe @ D PRINCE N D TREASURE (Prsonality Pep Chat).
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